quick question

Longside · #1 (**permalink**) 30-04-08, 18:40

ok this may not make sense but hey :P

you meet some1 and u hit it off then a few months later she says to u "i need to be single coz my heads a mess and maybe in a while when its sorted i can get into relationship with u again but im not promising anything so we will be friends for now"

what would you do

A. take it on the chin and look elsewhere
B. hang around waiting hoping she will go back to you

take into consideration ur madly in love with this person

Sweetpea · #2 (**permalink**) 30-04-08, 19:02

A. She won't be back mate. She was just letting you down lightly

Longside · #3 (**permalink**) 30-04-08, 19:05

but what if u knew her head was a mess

Sweetpea · #4 (**permalink**) 30-04-08, 19:21

Then be prepared to be there for her, but get on with your life.

Longside · #5 (**permalink**) 30-04-08, 19:27

i intend 2 be there for her and im gonna focus all my time when she is here in june visiting friends on gettin her back :P

it might fail like an ashtray on a motorbike or it might work

i have no idea what im gonna do to do it but i have 44 days to figure something out :P

Sweetpea · #6 (**permalink**) 30-04-08, 19:32

First thing, back off. Don't text, don't call. Let her call you, no matter how hard that is.

Longside · #7 (**permalink**) 30-04-08, 19:44

i been textin and talkin 2 her on msn since she said it so ur sayin i should back off with the texts ect

lol i need a psychic to read for me

Sweetpea · #8 (**permalink**) 30-04-08, 19:47

That's what I'd do. What you do is up to you.

Col.Kurtz · #9 (**permalink**) 01-05-08, 09:08

As Sweetpea says, sounds like she's letting you down gently. She might have issues with commitment right now though, so I'd give her some space and let her get in touch if she wants to - while getting on with my own life in the meantime. Not saying that will necessarily be easy for you though.

jaysay · #10 (**permalink**) 01-05-08, 11:09

Never chase after anyone, let them think your not bothered, if she don' get in touch move on or you'll spend your life being miserable, and believe me its not worth it

Longside · #11 (**permalink**) 01-05-08, 11:21

i'll just let her contactt me if she wants 2

thx 4 the advice

grannyclaret · #12 (**permalink**) 01-05-08, 11:59

Pick yourself up,,Brush yourself down, and start all over again...
ENJOY YOURSELF WHILE YOUR SINGLE

Longside · #13 (**permalink**) 01-05-08, 12:38

i hate being single though

Sweetpea · #14 (**permalink**) 01-05-08, 14:45

I loved it, think of the freedom, wow!!

Angel · #15 (**permalink**) 01-05-08, 15:19

I sometimes wish I was single!!