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As this is my first Blog I hope you will bear with me. Life at the moment is pretty rough with all that is going on. My hubby has been battling cancer for quite a while now and it does get you down. He had his first op in 1992 although I wasn't told he had cancer of the bowel (they didn't have to tell me then). He had his second op in 2005 again for bowel cancer. He was offered chemo after the op but the chances of it being benefical were 1in20 so he refused. I know a lot of people will find it hard to understand why he refused treatment but he had been so ill before the op and was just beginning to feel more like his old self that he didn't want a treatment that was going to make him ill again plus the odds were pretty low in his favour.
Twelve months after the op he was booked in for a scan as is the norm. This showed that the cancer had gone to his left lung. He had an op to remove it last December and in January we went to see the oncologist who was very abrupt with him and basically talked him out of having chemo much to my disgust. He was promised three monthly scans which he accepted.
Anyway the scans revealed that the cancer had travelled to his right lung. It is still classed as bowel cancer because rather than lung cancers these are cells that have resulted from his original bowel op. He was then offered six lots of chemo over twelve weeks which he has had.
He had a scan last Monday and if the chemo hasn't helped he will hopefully be offered a stronger dose. We are going for the results tomorrow so will let you know how we get on. Hope this hasn't bored you to much but it does help to get it off my chest!!
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Posted 08-06-08 at 01:09 by bernie
I know it has been a while since I posted but feel like I need to have a good old moan(did warn you when I first started blogging that it would be depressing). Well people tell you when you lose someone that things get better, sorry don't agree with that am finding it hard to function. Yes I can probably guess that you are thinking "pull yourself together" but it is so hard.
To top things off my Mum had an accident the other week whilst visiting somebody who was in Pendle Community Hospital. As she was getting into the lift the doors started to close and knocked her down, then they came back and hit her again. The end result was that my dear Mum ended up in Royal Blackburn with a fractured hip and broken ribs. They operated on her hip but the ribs need to be left to heal on their own.
Well we got the operation over and then Mum went to Accy Vic for rehab and now she is home. She is just so down and it is getting to me now. Mum was always very active and now she is stuck in her flat day in and day out, it is such a shame. I know that she will get better but she should never have been in this situation. Moan over for tonight will keep you updated, By the way Mum is seventy nine anmd very independent(well was before this accident)

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