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As this is my first Blog I hope you will bear with me. Life at the moment is pretty rough with all that is going on. My hubby has been battling cancer for quite a while now and it does get you down. He had his first op in 1992 although I wasn't told he had cancer of the bowel (they didn't have to tell me then). He had his second op in 2005 again for bowel cancer. He was offered chemo after the op but the chances of it being benefical were 1in20 so he refused. I know a lot of people will find it hard to understand why he refused treatment but he had been so ill before the op and was just beginning to feel more like his old self that he didn't want a treatment that was going to make him ill again plus the odds were pretty low in his favour.
Twelve months after the op he was booked in for a scan as is the norm. This showed that the cancer had gone to his left lung. He had an op to remove it last December and in January we went to see the oncologist who was very abrupt with him and basically talked him out of having chemo much to my disgust. He was promised three monthly scans which he accepted.
Anyway the scans revealed that the cancer had travelled to his right lung. It is still classed as bowel cancer because rather than lung cancers these are cells that have resulted from his original bowel op. He was then offered six lots of chemo over twelve weeks which he has had.
He had a scan last Monday and if the chemo hasn't helped he will hopefully be offered a stronger dose. We are going for the results tomorrow so will let you know how we get on. Hope this hasn't bored you to much but it does help to get it off my chest!!
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A Pleasant Christmas

Posted 27-12-07 at 19:36 by bernie
Well that is christmas out of the way and very pleasant it was. My grandaughter is still staying with me so she brought some of her presents to mine and we opened them together. After that was done and breakfast was out of the way she went home to spend some time with the rest of the family.
My niece came for me and off we went to see my sister and meet mum for the visit to the cemetery. My nephew who is nine had made two wreaths(with his dads help) one for my dads grave and one for Ian's. Can't say that visiting the grave was pleasant but the sun was once again shining down on my man. Little things like this bring me comfort, it puts the saying "the sun shines on the righteous into my head"
After the graveyard it was on to my other sisters for lunch. Far to much food and drink but very nice it was. Later in the day I went to my daughters and my grandson came and slept at mine. Boxing day was another day of to much food at my elder sisters followed by to much wine. What the heck it was christmas.
So I've managed to get through the first christmas, now it is the first wedding anniversary without Ian on Sunday. Then of course the new year is coming up. Will just have to keep taking it one day at a time, seems to be working for me so that is how I will do it. Hope everyone else had a pleasant christmas

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Bernie, i am pleased that you got through the Christmas festivities with the support and love of your family.
One day at a time....that is the nly way to do it.
My thoughts will be with you on Sunday. I'm sure Ian's spirit will be close to you.......and as for the new Year....well, like Christmas you just have to get through it the best way you can.
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Posted 28-12-07 at 17:58 by Magpi 47 Magpi 47 is offline
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Yes me to, for Sunday.
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Posted 28-12-07 at 20:09 by Kiki Kiki is offline
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It's always difficult, these 'firsts.' Though, no amount of christmases, birthdays, etc will be easy, you still think of them and go to buy them a card or present and then realise they aren't here to recieve them, and then thats when you begin to get upset again, even though the rest of the year, you still think of them, but it seems ''easier'' if that is the right word to say. It sounds as if you have a fantastic family to help and support you, and we are always here on line for you when you need us, though Magpie47 alwways seems to write things so well, I end up waffeling and not making sense, so please excuse my waffeling. Basically, I'm thinking of you and wish you all the help and support I can give. X
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Posted 02-01-08 at 15:10 by Mercury Mercury is offline
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Mercury, don't sell yourself short. You have done a great job with your comment.
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