As this is my first Blog I hope you will bear with me. Life at the moment is pretty rough with all that is going on. My hubby has been battling cancer for quite a while now and it does get you down. He had his first op in 1992 although I wasn't told he had cancer of the bowel (they didn't have to tell me then). He had his second op in 2005 again for bowel cancer. He was offered chemo after the op but the chances of it being benefical were 1in20 so he refused. I know a lot of people will find it hard to understand why he refused treatment but he had been so ill before the op and was just beginning to feel more like his old self that he didn't want a treatment that was going to make him ill again plus the odds were pretty low in his favour.
Twelve months after the op he was booked in for a scan as is the norm. This showed that the cancer had gone to his left lung. He had an op to remove it last December and in January we went to see the oncologist who was very abrupt with him and basically talked him out of having chemo much to my disgust. He was promised three monthly scans which he accepted.
Anyway the scans revealed that the cancer had travelled to his right lung. It is still classed as bowel cancer because rather than lung cancers these are cells that have resulted from his original bowel op. He was then offered six lots of chemo over twelve weeks which he has had.
He had a scan last Monday and if the chemo hasn't helped he will hopefully be offered a stronger dose. We are going for the results tomorrow so will let you know how we get on. Hope this hasn't bored you to much but it does help to get it off my chest!!
Twelve months after the op he was booked in for a scan as is the norm. This showed that the cancer had gone to his left lung. He had an op to remove it last December and in January we went to see the oncologist who was very abrupt with him and basically talked him out of having chemo much to my disgust. He was promised three monthly scans which he accepted.
Anyway the scans revealed that the cancer had travelled to his right lung. It is still classed as bowel cancer because rather than lung cancers these are cells that have resulted from his original bowel op. He was then offered six lots of chemo over twelve weeks which he has had.
He had a scan last Monday and if the chemo hasn't helped he will hopefully be offered a stronger dose. We are going for the results tomorrow so will let you know how we get on. Hope this hasn't bored you to much but it does help to get it off my chest!!
The Difference An Extra Pair Of Hands Makes
Posted 26-11-07 at 22:16 by bernie
What a difference an extra pair of hands makes. Having my son here has really made been a blessing and not just for the manual help the emotional side is just as important. My own fault really, I should have swallowed my pride and asked before now. In a sense I was thinking of Hubby, it must be so hard for him to lose his independence. But even he has said how big the difference is.
It really is affecting all the family and more than I thought, my grandson who is eight was so upset about grand-dad keep falling down he was seen by the headmaster at school today. I hope they keep their eye on him as I would hate for him to be upset and no one notice.
Also my grand-daughter normally stays here at the weekend and she has lost her bed but she does understand that it has to be about grand-dads comfort now. We have told her we will try and sort something out for her so that she can stop as well.
Anyway thats enough worrying about other people. We missed the nurse this morning, we all slept till about ten thirty, so first thing I did was ring district nurses to see if they were coming to do the pre chemo blood test. Turns out they had already been twice and we hadn't heard the door. Thankfully they came back and got it done. I will finish off for now, will post tomorrow if I can but if I don't keep your fingers crossed for us. Hopefully the movement might be back at this time tomorrow.
It really is affecting all the family and more than I thought, my grandson who is eight was so upset about grand-dad keep falling down he was seen by the headmaster at school today. I hope they keep their eye on him as I would hate for him to be upset and no one notice.
Also my grand-daughter normally stays here at the weekend and she has lost her bed but she does understand that it has to be about grand-dads comfort now. We have told her we will try and sort something out for her so that she can stop as well.
Anyway thats enough worrying about other people. We missed the nurse this morning, we all slept till about ten thirty, so first thing I did was ring district nurses to see if they were coming to do the pre chemo blood test. Turns out they had already been twice and we hadn't heard the door. Thankfully they came back and got it done. I will finish off for now, will post tomorrow if I can but if I don't keep your fingers crossed for us. Hopefully the movement might be back at this time tomorrow.
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Bernie...glad you are getting some family support and practical help......and yes you should have asked before now.....but hey, hindsight is 20/20.
And you're right about the condition affecting all the family in one way or another....you all need support.
Glad you slept in too.....you must've needed that sleep....I'm sure the nurses will understand.
My thoughts and prayers will be with you tomorrow and I've got everything crossed for you.
Give Ian one of those double hugs from me.Posted 27-11-07 at 14:41 by Magpi 47
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Posted 27-11-07 at 17:18 by Kiki
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Posted 27-11-07 at 19:54 by bernie


















