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As this is my first Blog I hope you will bear with me. Life at the moment is pretty rough with all that is going on. My hubby has been battling cancer for quite a while now and it does get you down. He had his first op in 1992 although I wasn't told he had cancer of the bowel (they didn't have to tell me then). He had his second op in 2005 again for bowel cancer. He was offered chemo after the op but the chances of it being benefical were 1in20 so he refused. I know a lot of people will find it hard to understand why he refused treatment but he had been so ill before the op and was just beginning to feel more like his old self that he didn't want a treatment that was going to make him ill again plus the odds were pretty low in his favour.
Twelve months after the op he was booked in for a scan as is the norm. This showed that the cancer had gone to his left lung. He had an op to remove it last December and in January we went to see the oncologist who was very abrupt with him and basically talked him out of having chemo much to my disgust. He was promised three monthly scans which he accepted.
Anyway the scans revealed that the cancer had travelled to his right lung. It is still classed as bowel cancer because rather than lung cancers these are cells that have resulted from his original bowel op. He was then offered six lots of chemo over twelve weeks which he has had.
He had a scan last Monday and if the chemo hasn't helped he will hopefully be offered a stronger dose. We are going for the results tomorrow so will let you know how we get on. Hope this hasn't bored you to much but it does help to get it off my chest!!
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A Long Night

Posted 25-11-07 at 20:27 by bernie
Well we went on our night out and it was nice talking to different people. Hubby just had a couple of small bottles of Merlot whilst I drank far to much lager. He was really impressed with the cake.
He has lost all the movement in his left side again. This happened about six weeks ago and when we went to the hospital they checked him over and took an x-ray but nothung untoward was found. After he had the chemo he got all the feeling back so we are hoping it happens again this time.
The worst thing about it is he needs two people to help him get from A to B. He fell a couple of times last night, luckily my grand daughter was here and after a struggle we managed to lift him. Anyway the solution has come in the form of my son who is staying with us as long as we need him.
Sleep was in very short supply last night as I was on full alert in case hubby needed to get to the toilet. Tonight should be easier with my lad to help but I will be trying to get an early night.

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    Forgot to say pics on Accyweb, don't know how to bring them over!!!!
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    Posted 25-11-07 at 22:09 by bernie bernie is offline
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    Bernie,Glad he liked the cake and glad too that your son is there with you! Take care !
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    Posted 26-11-07 at 18:38 by Kiki Kiki is offline
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    Thanks Kiki, I am wondering how I managed last time this happened. It is so much easier with one at each side of him.
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    Posted 26-11-07 at 18:40 by bernie bernie is offline
 

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