As this is my first Blog I hope you will bear with me. Life at the moment is pretty rough with all that is going on. My hubby has been battling cancer for quite a while now and it does get you down. He had his first op in 1992 although I wasn't told he had cancer of the bowel (they didn't have to tell me then). He had his second op in 2005 again for bowel cancer. He was offered chemo after the op but the chances of it being benefical were 1in20 so he refused. I know a lot of people will find it hard to understand why he refused treatment but he had been so ill before the op and was just beginning to feel more like his old self that he didn't want a treatment that was going to make him ill again plus the odds were pretty low in his favour.
Twelve months after the op he was booked in for a scan as is the norm. This showed that the cancer had gone to his left lung. He had an op to remove it last December and in January we went to see the oncologist who was very abrupt with him and basically talked him out of having chemo much to my disgust. He was promised three monthly scans which he accepted.
Anyway the scans revealed that the cancer had travelled to his right lung. It is still classed as bowel cancer because rather than lung cancers these are cells that have resulted from his original bowel op. He was then offered six lots of chemo over twelve weeks which he has had.
He had a scan last Monday and if the chemo hasn't helped he will hopefully be offered a stronger dose. We are going for the results tomorrow so will let you know how we get on. Hope this hasn't bored you to much but it does help to get it off my chest!!
Twelve months after the op he was booked in for a scan as is the norm. This showed that the cancer had gone to his left lung. He had an op to remove it last December and in January we went to see the oncologist who was very abrupt with him and basically talked him out of having chemo much to my disgust. He was promised three monthly scans which he accepted.
Anyway the scans revealed that the cancer had travelled to his right lung. It is still classed as bowel cancer because rather than lung cancers these are cells that have resulted from his original bowel op. He was then offered six lots of chemo over twelve weeks which he has had.
He had a scan last Monday and if the chemo hasn't helped he will hopefully be offered a stronger dose. We are going for the results tomorrow so will let you know how we get on. Hope this hasn't bored you to much but it does help to get it off my chest!!
A Rare Night Out
Posted 24-11-07 at 16:14 by bernie
What a palaver trying to get hubby to go to the accyweb monthly meeting. Let me explain why I want him to go, at the last meet in October he happened to mention he will be 65 early in December. So of course the organiser decided to combine tonights meet with a bit of an early birthday bash.
When I was shopping yesterday he e-mailed this lady and asked her if she would take me over in the taxi as he wasn't really up to going. As you can imagine it was panic stations, how to get him there?? Well we spoke on MSN and it was decided that she would call this morning and let him into the secret.
He in turn is making the effort and we'll be going if only for an hour or two. What he doesn't know is that I have got a cake made. It has been done in secret and when we get there said cake will be sat on the table!! So I am quite looking forward to tonight and hope hubby can enjoy a couple of pints. It will be nice to get out together and to have other people for company.
I will report back on how things go so wish me luck!!!
When I was shopping yesterday he e-mailed this lady and asked her if she would take me over in the taxi as he wasn't really up to going. As you can imagine it was panic stations, how to get him there?? Well we spoke on MSN and it was decided that she would call this morning and let him into the secret.
He in turn is making the effort and we'll be going if only for an hour or two. What he doesn't know is that I have got a cake made. It has been done in secret and when we get there said cake will be sat on the table!! So I am quite looking forward to tonight and hope hubby can enjoy a couple of pints. It will be nice to get out together and to have other people for company.
I will report back on how things go so wish me luck!!!
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Bernie, I hope you both have a lovely time.Posted 24-11-07 at 16:44 by Magpi 47
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Posted 24-11-07 at 17:49 by Kiki
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Posted 24-11-07 at 17:57 by bernie
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Posted 24-11-07 at 18:03 by Kiki
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Posted 24-11-07 at 18:11 by bernie
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Oh Bernie, I hope there will be some pictures......I would love to see the surprise on his face.Posted 24-11-07 at 18:34 by Magpi 47
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Posted 24-11-07 at 18:49 by bernie


















