As this is my first Blog I hope you will bear with me. Life at the moment is pretty rough with all that is going on. My hubby has been battling cancer for quite a while now and it does get you down. He had his first op in 1992 although I wasn't told he had cancer of the bowel (they didn't have to tell me then). He had his second op in 2005 again for bowel cancer. He was offered chemo after the op but the chances of it being benefical were 1in20 so he refused. I know a lot of people will find it hard to understand why he refused treatment but he had been so ill before the op and was just beginning to feel more like his old self that he didn't want a treatment that was going to make him ill again plus the odds were pretty low in his favour.
Twelve months after the op he was booked in for a scan as is the norm. This showed that the cancer had gone to his left lung. He had an op to remove it last December and in January we went to see the oncologist who was very abrupt with him and basically talked him out of having chemo much to my disgust. He was promised three monthly scans which he accepted.
Anyway the scans revealed that the cancer had travelled to his right lung. It is still classed as bowel cancer because rather than lung cancers these are cells that have resulted from his original bowel op. He was then offered six lots of chemo over twelve weeks which he has had.
He had a scan last Monday and if the chemo hasn't helped he will hopefully be offered a stronger dose. We are going for the results tomorrow so will let you know how we get on. Hope this hasn't bored you to much but it does help to get it off my chest!!
Twelve months after the op he was booked in for a scan as is the norm. This showed that the cancer had gone to his left lung. He had an op to remove it last December and in January we went to see the oncologist who was very abrupt with him and basically talked him out of having chemo much to my disgust. He was promised three monthly scans which he accepted.
Anyway the scans revealed that the cancer had travelled to his right lung. It is still classed as bowel cancer because rather than lung cancers these are cells that have resulted from his original bowel op. He was then offered six lots of chemo over twelve weeks which he has had.
He had a scan last Monday and if the chemo hasn't helped he will hopefully be offered a stronger dose. We are going for the results tomorrow so will let you know how we get on. Hope this hasn't bored you to much but it does help to get it off my chest!!
Getting Organised!!
Posted 23-11-07 at 20:36 by bernie
Started my christmas shopping at last, went to Burnley with my daughter. We went last week and spent nearly all the time looking for some Timberland boots that my grandaughter had asked for, so my shopping went by the board. Anyway off we went this afternoon and I got quite a lot of stuff. I am now trying to motivate myself to start wrapping them up.
The stuff I got today I paid for with my high street vouchers. I know a lot of people think you are better off saving in your bank account but this way I can be sure to save it every week. Whereas if it was going in the bank I would be tempted to miss if I was a bit short.
Really want to get all my presents bought before hubby starts his chemo in case he can't be left. So hoping to get it all done this weekend. Now I'm off to start wrapping.
The stuff I got today I paid for with my high street vouchers. I know a lot of people think you are better off saving in your bank account but this way I can be sure to save it every week. Whereas if it was going in the bank I would be tempted to miss if I was a bit short.
Really want to get all my presents bought before hubby starts his chemo in case he can't be left. So hoping to get it all done this weekend. Now I'm off to start wrapping.
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Ooh Bernie, that IS organised......as for the high street vouchers.......I think it is a good idea to lessen the financial burden of Christmas in whatever way suits you.
I have a treasure drawer and buy stuff during the year....i dip into this drawer for birthday presents etcetera....anything left over at this time of year goes to someone for a Christmas present.Posted 23-11-07 at 20:46 by Magpi 47


















