when i had nathan at 33weeks i was also in a bit of a state.
They let me hold him for an hour before taking him to scbu and then i was left in delivery til 11pm that evening (nathan was born at 12.20pm) unable to move due to some sort of shock or something at an early delivery.
Anyway, i finally went to the ward after they gave me a relaxant so i could move.
Got a bit gruesome after that as i started losing enormous clots!! BUT...THATS NOT my complaint. My complaint is that i didnt see nathan again until after lunch the next day because nobody would take me because they said they were too busy. That may seem not a big deal to some people but it was horrible!!
I actually think thats partly what lead to me suffering post natal depression a few months later and also why im reluctant to let him out of my sight. |